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Love Not War

So many couples married and unmarried forget the name of the game. The reason they are a couple is because they fell in love. Right, theoretical in any event. Then things start to change, maybe? What happens? That is the $64,000,000 question. Lets just say stuff. The point is now where is the relationship going? In some instances we start in the first stage of our relationship then things seems to change as we go forward with are very interests. Our focus change naturally over time. We have work , sports, games, electronic devices and so on. Not to mention having children, expanding the family and whatever else is going. As we change, sometimes are relationships changes. When we have other interests are attention is being reallocated. Therefore time & attention is taken away from perhaps from your significant others. For example: There is a new fad sweeping the country. It is called device addiction. such as too much time and focus on smart phones, computers, tablets etc.etc. This has been one of the reasons women cheat on their man. instead of time attention to your partner it is redirected and the partner feels ignored or uncared for? of course there are various stages in a relationship. Very simple to (take things for granted) forget what some of the same sparks that brought you together.

communicationWe also need to keep good lines of communication going. This is a very serious problem if you do not feel comfortable in solving all of your issues. This then carries with you and it is easy to affect you in all phases of your relationship especially in the bedroom. I not here to tell all the negatives. That you need to figure out yourself. I am here to help you create positive solutions. The earlier the stage the easier for you to succeed.

The time to start is now. Take the time to give this a little thought. start writing down the issues you feel that you may have. Have a sit down with your significant other and explain what you are doing. One way to start is explain you have been thinking in ways to nourish and enhance your relationship or (love). You want some special time to get together to discuss the issue. Just one on one with no distractions. (no kids, no TV, nothing else just us time) Above all you must be sincere. This just might shock your significant other. You also need know their opinion on how they feel about this. This might be a surprise more than you might think? Or maybe they might say I was thinking about something like that myself. Whatever the case be ready for anything? depending where you are with your relationship this may not be as easy as you think?

We also need to keep good lines of communication going. This is a very serious problem if you do not feel comfortable in solving all of your issues. This then carries with you and it is easy to affect you in all phases of your relationship especially in the bedroom. I not here to tell all the negatives. That you need to figure out yourself. I am here to help you create positive solutions. The earlier the stage the easier for you to succeed.

The time to start is now. Take the time to give this a little thought. start writing down the issues you feel that you may have. Have a sit down with your significant other and explain what you are doing. One way to start is explain you have been thinking in ways to nourish and enhance your relationship or (love). You want some special time to get together to discuss the issue. Just one on one with no distractions. (no kids, no TV, nothing else just us time) Above all you must be sincere. This just might shock your significant other. You also need know their opinion on how they feel about this. This might be a surprise more than you might think? Or maybe they might say I was thinking about something like that myself. Whatever the case be ready for anything? depending where you are with your relationship this may not be as easy as you think?

couple-communicationNew things that turn each other on. Bring some surprise gifts that turns her or him on. Think out of the box. Variety is the spice of life. Think of them first. You should know each other or ask what can I do to different to turn you on? Up your game in the bedroom. Do some new and exciting thins that will turn them on. Creativity inspires creativity. This can become a snow ball effect that keeps growing until heights of your relationship becomes (exceeds expectation) greater than you could ever imagine. I have reached states of bliss that can only described as spiritual love-making, ecstasy. Yes, a state of consciousness characterized by expanded spiritual awareness, visions or absolute . That is the real deal. I hope you can share this type of love-making. I will tell you this. It sure beats going through hell with daily accusatory arguments. Now you have the choice which situation would you prefer. I know people who have great relationships. If there were more there would not be the high divorce rate. It kills me how couples can sabotage their relationship because it s not them. It is the other mate that is so screwed up. Wrong buddy its you.

The best way to win the argument is to avoid it. So what if you tell them there right even though you know they are not. you might win the argument and lose the war? This whole theory probably will not work if you are not on the same team. However, how high can you get if you were? Research effective ways to communicate as well as reading positive articles to keep improving your relationship. Good luck and success in love not war.

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